2012-04-11 16:14:12 8178 Thank you Yiliang & Anna for the sharing. Comforting..
Hearing the letters read out in the program spurred me to write to my later
maternal granny.. She took care of me for the 1st few years of my life, the
deciding years.. & a niece of 11 years old also called Anna whose parents are
divorced & followed her French dad, cos her mom gave up the
custody. Sigh.. The girl is as old as my son, i wonder how is she. Her
mom does not seem to keep contact with her. The dad has a son from his
earlier marriage.. Drama right?
2012-04-11 16:08:39 7007 Though my grandma had passed away for many
years, I still feel very sad and remorse over not cake to take care of
her when she was hospitalised . Especially this month is her death
anniversary , I feel worse and have been flipping thru old photos of hers with family members to bring back those sweet memories of her . . .
2012-04-11 16:06:58 9874 以量, 谢谢你。i want to write a letter to my two kids,
2012-04-11 15:57:29 4624 Thank you yiliang... I wun give up on myself.
2012-04-11 15:57:26 7330 It is my most painful time in my life,
beside praying 2our God,i do not know what to do,my kids has been taken
away,they r my everything...no one can help our redress...how?
2012-04-11 15:55:17 0979 i am v depress i find human are getting
from bad to worst selfish cruel heartless life is meaningless .. i want
to be good .. how should i
motivate myself to live on happily and find meaning in life.
2012-04-11 15:54:05 4624 Hi hi... I dunno y I kept crying when I tune in today. Ha
ha maybe recently feel very down cos gg to be jobless... Maybe should try writing
2012-04-11 15:49:21 8255 Ur program remind me of my grandma. It
reminds me that I did not do much for her. I remember on e day before
her death, we did not spend time with her n I find her troublesome as
she keeps calling us to her every 5 mins. When I think back maybe she is
afraid as her religion believe that one will see " things" which we
will not b able to see. I really feel bad.
2012-04-11 15:49:10 6315 Anna & yi liang..thanks a lot..i really love tis programe
2012-04-11 15:47:56 6744 Yes, i been sending letter to my father who pass away
5years aly.when i miss him, i will write him a letter, i know in some where he is
listening.
2012-04-11 15:46:02 4695 I just started to listen to ur program. And like to say I
really like ur program ESP this 1.
2012-04-11 15:45:08 7984 I'm deeply saddened when my o mum had
cancer. I could nvr talk abt it without crying. I find it therapeutic
writing it out to my faraway fren in Canada. Writing abt my sadness
helps me heal.
2012-04-04 16:02:18 7330 I hv encounter a vy bad experience in my, life. My child was taken away., it seem no one can help us! I do know why i text u,may be i hope to get advice or some form of help this is my darkest moment in life..,
2012-04-04 16:01:59 7781 Your story gives a timely reminder as most of e time we tend to take things for granted . Anna many thanks for doing this good segment . E liang thanks for your effort . U are a great guy . All e best !
2012-04-04 15:52:30 0698 I know, we go anytime! But when my 3 kids angry me. I told them, I will go if they keep being so disobedient! But really sad if yr love one is gone.
Agape Counselling Centre Malaysia (Johor Bahru) 马来西亚博爱辅导中心（新山分会） 113-02, Jalan Rosmerah 2/16, Taman Johor Jaya, 81100 Johor Bahru, Johor. Tel / 辅导热线: 07-3579195 Fax: 07-3579198 Email: friend@myjbagape.com Website: http://www.myjbagape.com/
Kluang Buddhist Society PELITA Counselling Centre 居銮佛教会心灯咨询辅导中心 9A, Jalan Setia, 86000 Kluang, Johor. Tel: 019-7797389
Persatuan Pengajian Agama Buddha Kulai 古来佛学会佛济教育辅导中心 心灯咨询辅导部 100, Jalan Kenanga 29/6, Bandar Indahpura, 81000 Kulai, Johor. Tel: 07-6625400
The Befrienders (Johor Bahru) 防止自杀协会（新山） P.O. Box 153, Taman Sri Tebrau, 80057 Johor Bahru, Johor. 热线: 07-3312300
新山佛光咨商室（佛光山新山禅净中心） 48, Jalan Sutera Merah 2, Taman Sutera, 81200 Johor Bahru, Johor. Tel: 07-2898972/ 3 Fax: 07-2898975 辅导热线: 07-2898956/ 07-2898957 Email: fgsjbmy@gmail.com Website: http://www.fgsjb.org.my/
槟城州安宁关怀服务 HOSPICE CARE SERVICES IN PENANG
NATIONAL CANCER SOCIETY MALAYSIA (PENANG BRANCH) Rumah Hospice, 250A, Jalan Air Itam, 10460 Penang. Tel: +604 – 228 4140|Fax: +604 – 226 4676
孝恩辅导与谘商Xiao En Counselling and Support Services www.xiao-en.com (Careline: 1800-888-333)
马来西亚生命线协会Life Line Association Malaysia
www.lifeline.org.my
柔佛新山地区 方舟休养中心 Persatuan Hospice ARK No. 2, Jalan Sutera Merah 3, Taman Sutera 81200. Johor Bahru, Johor. Tel/Fax: 07-556 0878 Email: hospice_ark@hotmail.com
Palliative Care Association of Johor Bahru 44 Jalan Tun Abdul Razak Susur 1 80000 Johor Bahru 07-2229188 website: http//www.pcajb.com Dr Angamuthu (President) Mr Lee Soo Tong (Hon.Secretary) Ms Nancy Yee (Administrator)
below are three senior counsellors that i will recommend in Singapore.
(a) Care Corner (Mandarin) counselling Centre 郭丽芳 资深辅导员 (精通华语) (for Christian clients who speaks in Mandarin.) http://www.carecorner.org.sg/cccc.htm +65-63531180 Blk 62B Lorong 4 Toa Payoh #02-143 Singapore 312062
(b) Counselling and Care Centre Ms Ruth Chua (Senior Therapist) （精通双语） (for Christian clients who speaks in english and mandarin) +65-65366366 http://www.counsel.org.sg/ Blk 536 Upper Cross Street #05-241 Hong Lim Complex Singapore 050536
3. Shan You Counselling Centre Ms Jane Wong, 黄秋媚 (Senior Counsellor) （精通双语） (for Buddhist clients who speaks in Mandarin and English.) +65-6741 9293 http://www.shanyou.org.sg Block 5 Upper Boon Keng Road #02-15 Singapore 380005 (at Multi-storey Car Park, Level 2) Nearest MRT Station: Kallang
Hope it helps. 以上三位都会收费。打电话给辅导中心，他们的员工会替他们安排辅导档期。 至于收费多少，请致电询问。
1. I thought you mentioned about gaggle propolis for cancer patient who has painful throat. Did I recall correctly? No. Gaggle propolis liquid is for those patients who has wounds in mouth. not for managing the pain of the throat, but is for the mouth and the lips. especial the dryness and wounded parts. Please refer to the hospice doctor to manage the pain.
2. How much propolis to be used for gaggling purpose? It depends. you can follow the instruction when you purchase propolis liquid.
3. can the person swallow it after gaggling? follow the instruction of the product. normally, it is healthy enough. because 至於蜂膠可強化細胞膜，防止細菌入侵，增強抵抗力，含高量類黃酮可消除自由基與抗氧化作用，並具抗細菌、抗病毒效能。蜂膠具有顯著的殺菌、抑菌及抗炎活性，能有效殺死75種細菌，包括上呼吸道感染、預防肺炎、尿道感染等，蜂膠已發現對許多DNA與RNA型病毒均具抑制活性，包括流行性感冒A與B型病毒、水泡性口腔炎病毒、單純庖疹病毒、冠狀病毒、輪狀病毒和腺病毒等。BUT, before you purchase, please consult the nurses first. because i didn't see the patients directly, i am NOT supposed to give any instruction. Please refer to the nurse's or doctor's advices.
4. Do you know of any type of food to take when the time is closer? Please check with the doctors, or the nurses. normally, please avoid those foods which are rich in fibre so to avoid constipation. Don't give so much food for the dying patients. Reading material that helps you and your families: http://www.guangming.com.my/node/100654?tid=8
5. Do you know which hospice the family can approach for help? Firstly, please check with the oncologist whether the patient can be reffered to hospices. then, the oncologist will help to fill up referral form on behalf of the patient to the preferred hospice. They know what to do in the hospital, you don't need to give special instruction, once you request it. Patients can choose to have either home-care hospice service or inpatient hospice. below are the webpage link for all hospices in Singapore. Please inform your prefered hospice to the oncologist.
http://www.singaporehospice.org.sg/7.4_providersandservices.htm Please click one by one to browse all the details.
6. do you know of any helpful company that offers affordable funeral service? more or less the same. unlike Malaysia, there is big gap for the services. They all are almost sharing the similar costs and offers. here you go the webpage link for your further info. You MUST check all these to know all the action when patient is dying in Singapore. http://www.nea.gov.sg/passesaway/when.htm http://www.nea.gov.sg/passesaway/arrange.htm http://www.nea.gov.sg/passesaway/afd.htm
I could recall what i shared with you all in the training session, Hospices in Malaysia are far behind the system in Singapore. All the info are so well-written in Singapore. There is a large room for improvement in Malaysia. Let's make it better.
1) HOSPIS MALAYSIA 2, Jalan 4/96, Off Jalan Sekuci, Taman Sri Bahtera, Jalan Cheras, 56100 KL. Tel: +603 – 9133 3936 Fax: +603 – 9133 3941 Email: info@hospismalaysia.org Website: http://www.hospismalaysia.org/
2) KASIH HOSPICE CARE SOCIETY 7, Jalan 14/29, Section 14, 46100 Petaling Jaya, SEL. Tel: +603 – 7960 7424 Fax: +603 – 7956 6442 Email: admin@kasih-hospice.org Website: http://www.kasihfoundation.org/
3) HOSPICE KLANG 82, Jalan Sri Sarawak 4, Taman Sri Andalas, 41200 Klang, SEL. Tel: +603 – 3324 2125 / 3324 4740 Fax: +603 – 3324 3125 Email : hpsklang@gmail.com Website: http://www.hospiceklang.org/
4) ASSUNTA PALLIATIVE CARE CENTRE (AsPaCC) 83, Jalan Templer, 46990 Petaling Jaya, SEL. Tel: +603 – 7931 7298 Fax: +603 – 7954 3389 Email: aspacc.assuntahospital@gmail.com Website: www.assunta.com.my
除了上述的四间安宁疗护中心以外，以下附上其余两家安宁疗护医院的联络资料供您参考。
I) PALLIATIVE CARE UNIT, HOSPITAL SELAYANG Lebuhraya Selayang-Kepong, 68100 Batu Caves, SEL. Tel: +603 – 6120 7564 / 6120 3233
II) PALLIATIVE WARD, UNIVERSITY OF MALAYA MEDICAL CENTRE (UMMC) Pusat Perubatan Universiti Malaya, Lembah Pantai, 59100 KL. Tel: +603 – 7949 7611 / 7949 4422
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性侵犯案件支持（新加坡）
What after-care services are available to the victim?
AWARE’s SABS Helpline 6779-0282 (10 am to 3 pm, Mondays to Fridays) 1800-7745935 (3 pm to 930 pm, Mondays to Fridays) sabs@aware.org.sg
Care Corner Helpline (For Mandarin speakers) 1800 3535 800
Samaritans of Singapore (Suicidal tendencies) 1800 221 4444
