Thursday, February 25, 2010

一些对死亡的反思

小花

这朵小花在我老家前门花园盛开。
我让它的生命最灿烂的一刻留住。



***


礼拜一,回到慈怀病院上班。
我是拖着我的身体上班的。
虽然我热爱我的工作,可是我更热爱懒惰。

热爱那种早上起来不知道要做什么好的慵懒。
热爱那种下午不停睡觉也没有人干扰的奢侈。
热爱那种晚上睡不着也不担心明天运作的洒脱。

结果,为了钱,为了名利,为了解除我往后25年的房贷,
我是拖着我的身体上班的。

回到办公室,坦诚告诉同事:“我是拖着我的身体来的。”
至少有两个同事笑说:“我和你一样。”
找到共鸣,是很重要的。
It at least makes my day lighter a bit.

继续拖着身体去2楼开会。
每逢周一早上十点半到下午两点都是会议时间。
提供午餐。

今天的会议,我们讨论一个很严谨的课题。
我不禁严肃起来,
现在在家里很想继续用文字思考去询问自己对这个课题有何看法。
不禁抖擞起来,我不得不和慵懒说再见了。
明年农历新年再见,我的慵懒。



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上两个礼拜,一个病人被送进我们慈怀病院。
(资料恕不公开。)

他决定不再洗肾。
家人不断希望我们社工可以劝他继续洗肾。
毕竟,洗肾可以继续延长他的寿命。至少一年到五年?

结果,他对家人呼喝。不理睬他们。
他则对我们工作人员很有礼貌。只是每一次都想索取安眠药。

在他临终前几天,他不在一种宁静的状况。
不断呼喊痛。要安眠药。
很明显:那是一种害怕死亡的恐惧表象。

这样的不洗肾决定,
这样的不安宁死亡,
让我们这一群医疗人员讨论了一个小时。


讨论没有结果,反而引发了许多深思。

1。作为医疗人员,我们的伦理守则在那里?什么是对?什么是错?double effect 在发生。我们的道德底线到底在那里?
2。我们要尊重病人的决定,还是要照顾病人家属的需要?还是我们会自然把自己对此决定背后的价值观透射出来而影响我们的决定?
3。为何病人选择在这个时候放弃洗肾?Why now?为什么在新年期间即将来临,选择这个选择?
4。有没有任何人(医疗人员)告知病人不洗肾的后果是什么?(也就是寿命立即收到威胁。with short prognosis。)病人清不清楚他做的决定之后所带来的后果?他这个决定是如何做的?那个过程是如何展现的?有和家属商量吗?
5。病人到底追求什么?病人对于不断索取安眠药的背后动机是什么?害怕死亡?害怕疼痛?害怕体验自己的存在感渐渐消失的真相?

我们陆续说了许多问题。
结果负责此案件的团队,无法好好告诉我们这些问题,到底有没有和病人以及其家属讨论。
毕竟,入院时间太短了。
还未建立关系,病入就已经开始进入死亡状态。
家属只能穷紧张。

对病人,我们的专业在那里?
对家属,我们的支持在那里?
这都是我们不断反思的部分。

结果,病人用他一贯的方式来解决他的问题。这是他人生死亡的问题,他想一手包揽。
因此,另一个反思:如果病入不打开门,你如何走进去?
就像一个功能不良的家庭,不沟通,不商量,而且凝固的互动,是无法一下子改变的。

结果,病人无法安宁离开人间。
他灵验了自己的假想:
死亡是恐惧的。
死亡是不可说的。
死亡是不可谈的。
死亡是难免的。

结果,他留下一大堆疑问给我们。


我观察到我自己对这个病人是生气的。也是怜悯的。
生气他拒绝沟通。也拒绝让别人给予他资讯。
怜悯他一人受苦。他的苦必定超出我的想像,所以他做出这个有意义的决定来结束他无意义的生命。

我再继续延伸的话,我想:
他的家人对于他的离去。
必定也有这两种很复杂的情绪交战着。
一方面是生气的,一方面是怜悯的。
岂止是一个失落的情绪能形容。

我想:
如果我是他,我会如何做决定?
如果我是他的家人,我会做如何反应?

我想,不管如何做决定或者反应,
都会带来痛苦。以及体验生命的两难所带来的痛苦。


所以我不喜欢生命常给予我们两难的情境。
可是我不得不去接受我们生命常有这样两难的情境。

我想,病人放弃了。
那个放弃并没有带来完美的结果,
他还是要独自去面临死亡所带给他的无意义,以及恐惧感。

该面对的,还得面对。



以量

9 comments:

juexin said...

生命如此的脆弱。。
死亡的来临,我们防不胜防。。

Sharon Wong said...

I've something that I want to share.....
All these based on my own observations of my MUM....
...MUM choose to took her own life .. She hung herself!!
The STORY begins ..... at that time....
***MUM had a critiical stage of ovary cancer.....(43++)
*She had a very weak phsyical body
*MUM was not a religious person whatsoever , her spirituality was
very ... very low
* she needs a lot of care and encouraging words, not even a slight of words that sometimes we did not mean that way and she took it negatively
* after the removal of the ovary, she lost control of passing urine, a hole was created at the side of the addomen for the number two business... very... very inconvenient
* my MUM did not know how to express what she wants ... and we really did not know how to FIND out what she wants

All these forces were negative to her , life was meaningless...
She tought she could not contribute much( MUM was a very hardworking woman.MUM had brought blessings to the WONG FAMILY !!We prospered financially since then, .... )
But she did not has the will to live on.. so she took her own life !
....but I have a QUESTION...

DIDN'T MUM know ...we , we...the five little innocent , naive souls really... really ... need HER... that I have no answer...
Maybe to her .... this was overwhelming ??????
DO you have the answers!!!
Looking forward....!!

Ed said...

Yes I agree with what you said about having to drag ourselves to work especially when we are enjoying our holidays :) I experience that too, many times in fact :)

Hmmm it is indeed an uphill task to be working in this sector as you are often in a difficult position because you are sandwiched between the patient and his/her family. On the one hand, the patient has given up his/her life and wants to be liberated and on the other hand, his/her family members want the patient to prolong his/her life for as long as possible. Where do the social workers stand in this matter? Respecting client's choices or fighting for the rights of patient's family members by urging patient to continue medication?

If there are easy answers to this, then this probably wouldn't be called life :) Thanks for thinking so deeply and standing in the patient's as well as his/her family members' shoes :) It requires a lot of strength to be able face and deal with all the pain involved especially in your line of work. Jiayou wor Yee Leong! :D

Laughing budda said...

苦集灭道!

病人有许多的无奈吧!苦

太多的无奈使他无法再承受集大的苦难!

他索取安眠药,或许他想灭掉这煎熬的道路!

每一个人都想安乐的离开世间,不用受这色身之苦。快乐的睡着离开人间。
不过,有多少人能坦荡荡的面对死亡而放下所有的情感和肉身之苦。
所以,我坚信会有好多人会支持安乐死吧!

试想想,当一棵大树倒下,它的四大都在慢慢分解,地,水,火,风。只是大树不能说话,但我会觉得它是痛的喔。何况会说话的人类!

阿弥陀佛!

燕琴 said...

以量,
谢谢你!谢谢你所有的分享!很感人!

我是你的忠实读者,从你在《孩子》的文章,到你的每一本书,我都在看。都在哭。
昨天我重读你的《陪你到最后》时才发现你原来有写blog!!!我好开心哦!好像捡到宝那样开心!我会花时间把你整个blog都看完。谢谢你!我真的以你为荣!!

happy said...

Thnx for sharing ur thots abt tis patient's ordeal... We may nvr really fathom his choice to end his life in tis painful way. I empathise with his surviving family members. How does 1 ever heal fr such traumatic experience?! It must hv been hard for u too to noe that there's nothing much u could do to help... Hugs :D

以量 said...

Juexin:谢谢分享。

Sharon:sorry for knowing all these sharing from you. I don't have the ultimate answer. You might be the one who needs to find it bit by bit, keep on going. you are in the path. all the best to you.

Ed, thanks for your sharing. This kind of dilemma isn't easy to have simple answer. thanks for your jiayou lor...

笑佛:谢谢分享咯。我相信大树不会痛。因为大树没有疼痛的神经系统以及感受系统吧。:p 可能有也说不定哦。

燕琴:谢谢你这么喜欢我的文字。谢谢你。

Happy:thanks for your sharing. :)

Sharon Wong said...

Hi! Yi Liang,
Thank you for the reply!
Sure...!! I shall gradually find the answers.
More to that..., since that incident,
I've taken GREAT INTEREST in searching for.....
...what it means by TRUE HAPPINESS in life????
...how to live a QUALITY life???
It has been my life long exploration....
I am working towards it....!!!
Thank you once again!!
May GOD's choicest blessings reserved for you...! for me....! for the world...!

Anonymous said...

This story is between me and my father.

My view and what I experience.
Initial Stage: I have decide to brought my father do to treatment ( Chemo and Radiotherapy). On my own view it may help him to control his conditon and his condition would not become worsen.

After a year treatment, i had notice that my father's body become very weak and result after treatment is not positive.

According to doctor, treatment must be continue every three week once a month...

Currently, I have ask myself am i make wrong decision or right decision? I decided he accept above treatment to wish that my father can continue live. Hoewever, I never think about that what he suffer after all the treatment and what in his mind.He even informed doctor he wish to discontinued the treatment.


I realise that I scare to lost him and i convince him to continue treatment. Am I right? I dont think so.

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8。问:大马电台 aiFM 什么时段再有你的节目?
暂时没有


9。大马各地的辅导资源:

Agape Counselling Centre Malaysia (Johor Bahru)
马来西亚博爱辅导中心(新山分会)
113-02, Jalan Rosmerah 2/16, Taman Johor Jaya, 81100 Johor
Bahru, Johor.
Tel / 辅导热线: 07-3579195
Fax: 07-3579198
Email: friend@myjbagape.com
Website: http://www.myjbagape.com/

Kluang Buddhist Society PELITA Counselling Centre
居銮佛教会心灯咨询辅导中心
9A, Jalan Setia, 86000 Kluang, Johor.
Tel: 019-7797389

Persatuan Pengajian Agama Buddha Kulai
古来佛学会佛济教育辅导中心
心灯咨询辅导部
100, Jalan Kenanga 29/6, Bandar Indahpura, 81000 Kulai, Johor.
Tel: 07-6625400

The Befrienders (Johor Bahru)
防止自杀协会(新山)
P.O. Box 153, Taman Sri Tebrau, 80057 Johor Bahru, Johor.
热线: 07-3312300

新山佛光咨商室(佛光山新山禅净中心)
48, Jalan Sutera Merah 2, Taman Sutera, 81200 Johor Bahru, Johor.
Tel: 07-2898972/ 3
Fax: 07-2898975
辅导热线: 07-2898956/ 07-2898957
Email: fgsjbmy@gmail.com
Website: http://www.fgsjb.org.my/


槟城州安宁关怀服务
HOSPICE CARE SERVICES IN PENANG

NATIONAL CANCER SOCIETY MALAYSIA (PENANG BRANCH)
Rumah Hospice, 250A, Jalan Air Itam, 10460 Penang.
Tel : +6
04 – 228 4140 | Fax : +604 – 226 4676

Email : ncsmpg@gmail.com | Website : http://www.ncsmpenang.org

Services : Palliative home care


PURE LOTUS HOSPICE OF COMPASSION
73, Jalan Utama, 10460 Penang.
Tel : +604 - 229 5482 | Fax : +604 -229 5482
Email : lyanshih@gmail.com | Website : http://purelotushospice.org/

Services : In-patients care service for advanced cancer patients.

MOUNT MIRIAM HOSPITAL, PENANG

23, Jalan Bulan, Fettes Park, 11200 Tanjung Bungga, Penang.

Tel : +604 - 892 3999 | Fax : +604 – 890 1583
Email : enquiry@mountmiriam.com | Website : www.mountmiriam.com

Services : Out-patient, in-patient and home care.

CHARIS HOSPICE

15, Cangkat Minden, Jalan 12, 11700 Penang.

Tel : +604 – 658 7668 or +60111 -246 6757 | Fax : +604 – 658 7669
Email :
charishospice@gmail.com | Website : http://www.charishospice.com
Services : Palliative home care and day-time activities for patients.

HOSPITAL PULAU PINANG

Wad Medikal Paliatif, Hospital Pulau Pinang, Jalan Perak, 11600 Penang.

Tel : +604 – 288 6230

Services : In-patient care service

HOSPITAL BUKIT MERTAJAM

Hospital Bukit Mertajam, Jalan Kulim, 14000 Bukit Mertajam, Sebarang Perai Tengah.

Tel : +604 – 579 7333
Services : In-patient care service



还有另外一个管道,你可以联络槟城檀香寺爱心线,
问一问他们有没有提供居家服务的义工。http://thanhsiang.org/ch/welfare/mitra/aixinxian

额外相关连结Additional Related Links:

慈怀病院资源表 Malaysian Hospice Council
www.malaysianhospicecouncil.org (please click into ‘members’ page)


马来西亚辅导与福利服务资源表 Counselling and Welfare Support Services in Malaysia

http://www.newera.edu.my/counselling_centre/1_Counselling%20Centre.pdf

孝恩辅导与谘商 Xiao En Counselling and Support Services
www.xiao-en.com (Careline: 1800-888-333)


马来西亚生命线协会 Life Line Association Malaysia

www.lifeline.org.my



柔佛新山地区
方舟休养中心
Persatuan Hospice ARK
No. 2, Jalan Sutera Merah 3, Taman Sutera 81200.
Johor Bahru, Johor.
Tel/Fax: 07-556 0878
Email: hospice_ark@hotmail.com



Palliative Care Association of Johor Bahru
44 Jalan Tun Abdul Razak
Susur 1
80000 Johor Bahru
07-2229188
website: http//www.pcajb.com
Dr Angamuthu (President)
Mr Lee Soo Tong (Hon.Secretary)
Ms Nancy Yee (Administrator)




below are three senior counsellors that i will recommend in Singapore.

(a) Care Corner (Mandarin) counselling Centre
郭丽芳 资深辅导员 (精通华语)
(for Christian clients who speaks in Mandarin.)
http://www.carecorner.org.sg/cccc.htm
+65-63531180
Blk 62B Lorong 4 Toa Payoh
#02-143 Singapore 312062

(b) Counselling and Care Centre
Ms Ruth Chua (Senior Therapist) (精通双语)
(for Christian clients who speaks in english and mandarin)
+65-65366366
http://www.counsel.org.sg/
Blk 536 Upper Cross Street
#05-241 Hong Lim Complex
Singapore 050536

3. Shan You Counselling Centre
Ms Jane Wong, 黄秋媚 (Senior Counsellor) (精通双语)
(for Buddhist clients who speaks in Mandarin and English.)
+65-6741 9293
http://www.shanyou.org.sg
Block 5 Upper Boon Keng Road #02-15
Singapore 380005
(at Multi-storey Car Park, Level 2)
Nearest MRT Station: Kallang

Hope it helps.
以上三位都会收费。打电话给辅导中心,他们的员工会替他们安排辅导档期。
至于收费多少,请致电询问。


10。

谢谢你告诉我目前面对的两难。
抱歉。我无暇在线上提供任何的支持。
目前共有 1000 多封 email 无法回应。
我建议你要继续寻找成长的道路。

第一。请多阅读。那些我在书后推荐的延伸阅读书籍。
第二。如果你愿意的话,改次我在哪里有带工作坊的时候,希望你能过来参加。所有活动的更新都会放在 FB 里。
第三。找能信任的亲友倾诉是很能疗愈的事。如果这方面欠缺的话,我希望你不妨考虑以下资料:


我和马来西亚生命线协会提出一个支持大家解决方式,
而得到他们的同意。生命线有一群资深协谈义工非常乐意协助大家。而目前已经有许多读者们开始和这些义工们开始商谈他们的两难。

你的任何心事想要倾诉,不妨考虑以下生命线所提供免费的支持方式:

(1)email 谘商 counselling@lifeline.org.my

(2)热线辅导专线:+603- 4265 7995 服务时间:星期一至星期五 7.00pm-10.00pm 星期六 2.00 pm - 5.00 p.m.

(3)面谈辅导服务。辅导面谈预约电话:+603-4266 6195

想要多了解生命线协会,请浏览:http://www.lifeline.org.my/
生命线facebook https://www.facebook.com/pages/Life-Line-Association-Malaysia/160111523630?ref=stream

感谢你。祝福你。望你谅解。

以量


11。

马来西亚董总出版社。cbmember@djz.edu.my
或者打電話給董總(+603-8736 2337 分线213/214/250)
请他们直接邮寄给你。

四本书:已亮的天空。尋找光和愛。把愛帶回家(这本是教总出版,不过董总依然可以帮忙售卖)。陪你到最后。

请看以下的网络介绍。
《把爱带回家》http://web.jiaozong.org.my/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=254&Itemid=143
《陪你到最后》http://lot5reading.blogspot.com/2009/10/blog-post_3943.html
《已亮的天空》http://www.got1shop.com/goods.php?id=53674
《寻找光和爱》http://lot5reading.blogspot.com/2009/10/blog-post_7739.html


12。安宁疗护的资料

http://www.singaporehospice.org.sg/7.4_providersandservices.htm


let me answer these one by one.

1. I thought you mentioned about gaggle propolis for cancer patient who has painful throat. Did I recall correctly?
No. Gaggle propolis liquid is for those patients who has wounds in mouth. not for managing the pain of the throat, but is for the mouth and the lips. especial the dryness and wounded parts. Please refer to the hospice doctor to manage the pain.

2. How much propolis to be used for gaggling purpose?
It depends. you can follow the instruction when you purchase propolis liquid.

3. can the person swallow it after gaggling?
follow the instruction of the product. normally, it is healthy enough. because 至於蜂膠可強化細胞膜,防止細菌入侵,增強抵抗力,含高量類黃酮可消除自由基與抗氧化作用,並具抗細菌、抗病毒效能。蜂膠具有顯著的殺菌、抑菌及抗炎活性,能有效殺死75種細菌,包括上呼吸道感染、預防肺炎、尿道感染等,蜂膠已發現對許多DNA與RNA型病毒均具抑制活性,包括流行性感冒A與B型病毒、水泡性口腔炎病毒、單純庖疹病毒、冠狀病毒、輪狀病毒和腺病毒等。BUT, before you purchase, please consult the nurses first. because i didn't see the patients directly, i am NOT supposed to give any instruction. Please refer to the nurse's or doctor's advices.

4. Do you know of any type of food to take when the time is closer?
Please check with the doctors, or the nurses. normally, please avoid those foods which are rich in fibre so to avoid constipation. Don't give so much food for the dying patients.
Reading material that helps you and your families: http://www.guangming.com.my/node/100654?tid=8

5. Do you know which hospice the family can approach for help?
Firstly, please check with the oncologist whether the patient can be reffered to hospices. then, the oncologist will help to fill up referral form on behalf of the patient to the preferred hospice. They know what to do in the hospital, you don't need to give special instruction, once you request it. Patients can choose to have either home-care hospice service or inpatient hospice. below are the webpage link for all hospices in Singapore. Please inform your prefered hospice to the oncologist.

http://www.singaporehospice.org.sg/7.4_providersandservices.htm
Please click one by one to browse all the details.


6. do you know of any helpful company that offers affordable funeral service?
more or less the same. unlike Malaysia, there is big gap for the services. They all are almost sharing the similar costs and offers.
here you go the webpage link for your further info. You MUST check all these to know all the action when patient is dying in Singapore.
http://www.nea.gov.sg/passesaway/when.htm
http://www.nea.gov.sg/passesaway/arrange.htm
http://www.nea.gov.sg/passesaway/afd.htm


I could recall what i shared with you all in the training session, Hospices in Malaysia are far behind the system in Singapore. All the info are so well-written in Singapore. There is a large room for improvement in Malaysia. Let's make it better.

regards

Yee Leong

任何有兴趣想要多了解無語良師計劃(馬來西亞)的读者们,不妨浏览此网页。
www.silentmentor.org


13。

若您想了解安宁机构在巴生谷地区,请游览以下网页或拨电询问更多详情。

1) HOSPIS MALAYSIA
2, Jalan 4/96, Off Jalan Sekuci, Taman Sri Bahtera, Jalan Cheras, 56100 KL.
Tel: +603 – 9133 3936
Fax: +603 – 9133 3941
Email: info@hospismalaysia.org
Website: http://www.hospismalaysia.org/

2) KASIH HOSPICE CARE SOCIETY
7, Jalan 14/29, Section 14, 46100 Petaling Jaya, SEL.
Tel: +603 – 7960 7424
Fax: +603 – 7956 6442
Email: admin@kasih-hospice.org
Website: http://www.kasihfoundation.org/

3) HOSPICE KLANG
82, Jalan Sri Sarawak 4, Taman Sri Andalas, 41200 Klang, SEL.
Tel: +603 – 3324 2125 / 3324 4740
Fax: +603 – 3324 3125
Email : hpsklang@gmail.com
Website: http://www.hospiceklang.org/

4) ASSUNTA PALLIATIVE CARE CENTRE (AsPaCC)
83, Jalan Templer, 46990 Petaling Jaya, SEL.
Tel: +603 – 7931 7298
Fax: +603 – 7954 3389
Email: aspacc.assuntahospital@gmail.com
Website: www.assunta.com.my

除了上述的四间安宁疗护中心以外,以下附上其余两家安宁疗护医院的联络资料供您参考。

I) PALLIATIVE CARE UNIT, HOSPITAL SELAYANG
Lebuhraya Selayang-Kepong, 68100 Batu Caves, SEL.
Tel: +603 – 6120 7564 / 6120 3233

II) PALLIATIVE WARD, UNIVERSITY OF MALAYA MEDICAL CENTRE (UMMC)
Pusat Perubatan Universiti Malaya, Lembah Pantai, 59100 KL.
Tel: +603 – 7949 7611 / 7949 4422


在SRI KEMBANGAN SOUTH CITY PLAZA 内有一NGO
专给单亲家庭协助-定期发放物资。
只要有离婚证书或警局报案报告(先生离家/失踪)就可申请。
容易获得,不像JKM福利金最快也要等半年。
你google search : Multi Mutual Charity Association


性侵犯案件支持(新加坡)

What after-care services are available to the victim?

AWARE’s SABS Helpline
6779-0282 (10 am to 3 pm, Mondays to Fridays)
1800-7745935 (3 pm to 930 pm, Mondays to Fridays)
sabs@aware.org.sg

Care Corner Helpline (For Mandarin speakers)
1800 3535 800

Samaritans of Singapore (Suicidal tendencies)
1800 221 4444

ComCare Helpline (Family Service Centres)
1800 222 0000
- See more at: http://www.aware.org.sg/help-for-rape-victim/#sthash.KlA6celv.dpuf

Please call any of them to seek for further assistance.

meanwhile, please browse the below webpages as well.
http://www.aware.org.sg/rape/
http://www.aware.org.sg/2011/11/official-launch-of-sexual-assault-befrienders-service-sabs/
http://www.aware.org.sg/help-for-rape-victim/



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youtube: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9oNLZDvKphPYbu8XdzdOdw



你好。

事务过于繁忙,无暇一一回应。
请参考以下给予的资料。
希望你从中找到一些线索。


一系列 12 集《听生死说故事》电台节目分享:
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面子书:孝恩辅导

或者请阅读善终这本书。

请搜寻 google 乳癌 support group,或许你会找到一些有相关知识的团体,给你协助。

祝福你及你的母亲。

以量 望谅解。


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你需要先在电邮里做个简单的介绍及你对团队实习的要求。你们俩先沟通及彼此了解。如果双方的期待吻合,我们会再要求面试。你需要通过实习面试,才能真正开始实习工作。

我不会督导你。是我们团队伙伴督导你。

谢谢询问。 祝福你。

以量 谢谢你。祝福你。


謝謝大家。祝福大家。